We are often reminded not to speak ill of the dead, and in turn, we extend the same courtesy to the living, assuming that they will not be criticized when they are no more. However, this silence becomes a weapon wielded against us, as those in power exploit our reluctance to speak out, taking advantage of our shared resources to lead opulent lives. Consider the man who having corruptly enriched himself, owns properties around the globe, sending his children to elite schools, adorning his wife with extravagant jewelry, hosting lavish parties, and generously showering musicians with money. He tosses mere crumbs our way, and we find ourselves thanking him for the meager share of our collective resources.
Similarly, we’re instructed not to criticize our leaders, demanding respect for them even as they show none for us. They preach about sacrifice, urging us to fast while they feast, and insist on austere measures that they themselves ignore. Our grievances, whether big or small, are left unaddressed, be it the rising crime rates, high unemployment rates, terrible conditions of our public schools, hunger, the dire state of hospitals, or the perilous conditions of our roads.
Religious leaders, too, escape criticism under the umbrella of being anointed. They advocate fasting for a better future while indulging in the abundance of today. Private jets ferry them to spread the message of prosperity, while we are left to walk and share the promise of heaven. Despite their exploitation, we affectionately address them as ‘daddies’ and ‘mummies’ hoping they will one day care for us like they care for their biological children.
The poor, often exploited by politicians, are also shielded from criticism. Politicians offer them crumbs during elections, only to abandon them once in power. Yet, come the next election cycle, a loaf of bread is enough to secure their votes. The poor, in their struggle for basic necessities, inadvertently perpetuate the cycle of exploitation.
Contrastingly, we find it easy to speak ill of our country, blaming it for its lack of progress. However, if our nation were a sentient being, it might rebuke every citizen within its borders, shifting blame to the rich, the poor, the politicians, the military, the police, the civil service, the bankers, the judiciary, the lawyers, other professionals and non professionals. The question then arises: who will speak for our country? Who will address the misdeeds of both the deceased and the living that have wrought havoc on the nation and its global image?
Perhaps, it is time for us to take responsibility for our part, big or small, in the challenges our country faces. Instead of speaking ill of the nation, maybe we should commit ourselves to speaking out against those, whether alive or deceased, who have contributed to its struggles. By doing so, we can actively work towards building a better future for our beloved Nigeria. It’s time for each one of us to play our part in the nation’s revival.
NB: Johnson Babalola, a Canada based lawyer, leadership consultant and corporate emcee, is a public affairs analyst.
